Popsicles & Bandaids Make Everything Better
I posted this on Facebook - sorry for the repeat if you've already seen it.....
Eli is sick today and Nandi doesn't feel well, so I thought I'd better see how Noah was feeling, too...
"How are you feeling Noah?"
S-I-C-K
"You feel sick?"
Y-E-S
"Where does it hurt?"
N-O-S-E
"Does anything else hurt?"
S-T-O-M-A-C-H
"I'm so sorry. Would a pospsicle make it better?"
Y-E-S
"What flavor?"
N-O-T G-R-A-P-E
"Okay, orange or cherry?"
O-R-A-N-G-E
5 minutes later...
"Do you feel better now?"
N-O
"What would make you feel better?"
B-A-N-D-A-D-E
"A bandaid would make you feel better?"
Y-E-S
"But you're not bleeding."
N-O
"But it'll make you feel better?"
Y-E-S
"What kind of Bandaid?"
S-N-O-O-P-Y
"And where do you want me to put it?"
S-T-O-M-A-C-H
"So, let me get this straight. A Snoopy Bandaid on your non-bleeding stomach will make you feel better?"
Y-E-S
So I proceed to put a Snoopy Bandaid on his stomach... and he tears it off and tries to eat it.
"Noah, why did you tell me you wanted a Bandaid if you were going to turn around and eat it?"
C-A-N-T H-E-L-P I-T.
(Lightbulb moment).
"How did it make you feel to get a bandaid?"
N-O-R-M-A-L
Noah challenges my belief system everyday. I wish every parent of a nonverbal child - especially with autism - would realize that our kids are in there. They're normal, typical children on the inside... wanting popsicles and bandaids, just like every other kid in the world.
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"How are you feeling Noah?"
S-I-C-K
"You feel sick?"
Y-E-S
"Where does it hurt?"
N-O-S-E
"Does anything else hurt?"
S-T-O-M-A-C-H
"I'm so sorry. Would a pospsicle make it better?"
Y-E-S
"What flavor?"
N-O-T G-R-A-P-E
"Okay, orange or cherry?"
O-R-A-N-G-E
5 minutes later...
"Do you feel better now?"
N-O
"What would make you feel better?"
B-A-N-D-A-D-E
"A bandaid would make you feel better?"
Y-E-S
"But you're not bleeding."
N-O
"But it'll make you feel better?"
Y-E-S
"What kind of Bandaid?"
S-N-O-O-P-Y
"And where do you want me to put it?"
S-T-O-M-A-C-H
"So, let me get this straight. A Snoopy Bandaid on your non-bleeding stomach will make you feel better?"
Y-E-S
So I proceed to put a Snoopy Bandaid on his stomach... and he tears it off and tries to eat it.
"Noah, why did you tell me you wanted a Bandaid if you were going to turn around and eat it?"
C-A-N-T H-E-L-P I-T.
(Lightbulb moment).
"How did it make you feel to get a bandaid?"
N-O-R-M-A-L
Noah challenges my belief system everyday. I wish every parent of a nonverbal child - especially with autism - would realize that our kids are in there. They're normal, typical children on the inside... wanting popsicles and bandaids, just like every other kid in the world.
Comments
Leveta
Noah, I love hearing about what you are thinking about. :) You are one really really intelligent boy! I am so glad you are able to express these thoughts to your family. That must be very exciting!